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Post by Lynn Nightshade on Nov 21, 2005 0:43:05 GMT -5
I had my heart broken for the umpteenth time about a couple of weeks ago.
Here's a general sum up of my problem. I’ve been crushing on a good friend of mine from Michigan for as long as I’ve known him. Being a typical girl, I’d always get somewhat jealous when he had a girlfriend in his life. He told me he wasn’t really into long distance relationships, and I accepted that part of him. The thing that really hurt me is that he got involved with someone in Germany. The thing I really don’t get is that he can be with someone on another continent, but can’t be with someone about 3,000 miles away?
I’ve been contemplating whether or not to completely severe all ties with him. I can’t stand when he breaks my heart like this, but I love being friends with him. It’s so confusing. Anyone have any advice for me?
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Post by KoNeko on Nov 21, 2005 3:26:06 GMT -5
Huh. Michigan, eh? 
I think the thing here is not to sever all ties... well, at least not just yet. I mean, if anything, doing that is just really drastic and you'll lose what sounds like an otherwise good friend in the process. Does he know how you feel about the whole situation at the moment? The other thing is that, unfortunately, you can't make someone just be attracted to you like that; and if you're his friend then at least even if his relationship falls through he's still got you, right?
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Post by Lynn Nightshade on Nov 21, 2005 3:42:38 GMT -5
No he doesn't know, because everytime he gets a new girlfriend, I feel like I'm tossed into the trash until the relationship doesn't work out and then he just starts talking to me as if nothing happened. I never tell him stuff like that cause he'll prolly throw a fit and tell me to get over it, and he's not my favourite person when he's pissed off.
And I get that I can't make him be attracted to me, but the thing I don 't get is why he just had to go back on that statement. That's the only thing that really upset me. I'm not even sure I can talk to him about this because of the above reason.
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Post by Lianne on Nov 23, 2005 22:20:21 GMT -5
Yeah i kinda have a friend like that that i like and i know he likes me but long distance isnt even a question. So I would stay friends with him, maybe meet him one day? You never know what will happen. Until then though its one of those difficult things 
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Post by Lynn Nightshade on Nov 23, 2005 22:43:41 GMT -5
I don't think meeting him would be a great idea right now. I have a feeling that if I saw him, I'd be full of so much hatred towards him for lying to me like that I'd probably start hitting him like there was no tomorrow. I don't trust guys so easily after they've lied to me... even if it's only their first offense. Plus, if the girlfriend were there, I'd be so jealous, I could do something even more stupid.
It hurts that he chose to do this. There are times where I think he'll do things without considering how it'll make others around him feel (I hope that made sense somehow). Sometimes I think it's my fault that I just had to fall for him and get hurt like this all the time. I'm so sick of asking myself, "Why me?", but I feel as if that's all I can really do right now.
I just wish I wasn't lied to like that.
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