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Post by KoNeko on Apr 6, 2007 14:57:45 GMT -5
It could be worse. One of my friends (now roommate) told me over summer that he liked me, and my gut reaction was to laugh because it was so awkward. Then he thought I was laughing at him, and yeah.
But, from experience, the sooner you nip it in the bud and get the message across, the better. Otherwise he might accuse you of leading him on and get mad with you and all that stuff later. I know that sounds so silly, but if there is any hope in your being friends later, sort it out now. Good luck!
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Post by nancy on Apr 6, 2007 15:33:08 GMT -5
I can't lie to him. I'm a terrible liar, plus he's good friends with my best friend from school. So yeah. I know, I have to tell him something, but he hasn't even said anything about liking me yet, just acts like he does. But I can't talk to him about such things if he doesn't bring it up. I guess I could just let him know I'm into somebody else, without mentioning the fact I think he likes me and so on. Or that my friend told me.
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Post by KoNeko on Jan 7, 2011 3:45:26 GMT -5
BLAH.
ALL MEN ARE IDIOTS AND I AM DATING THEIR KING.
Sorry, I just had to get that out. You know I don't really mean that, but I am very frustrated at the moment.
I just think the idea of having a designated breakup day is ridiculous, but there is nothing I can say to convince him otherwise, so I am chalking this one up to obstinate stupidity. So, I wrote that in 2006, and I rememebr who this was about. We ended up in an unhappy and slightly apathetic relationship until about October last year.
I am such a slow learner.
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Post by Lianne on Jan 7, 2011 13:29:44 GMT -5
Man i already replied to this but for some reason i cant see it.
Anyways Ko, i dont think you should be sad about being a "slow learner" the point is that you have learned and now youa re dating someone who interests you, right?
I dont know if you guys remember Alex, i talked about him a bunch and i was dating him and broke up with him while i was active here in the past. I knew i wanted to break up with him a few months after we had started dating, but didnt because of certain situations and blah blah blah. But we were on and off for the last year and a half of our 2.5 year relationship all my doing. But i can't regret "not learning" because it has brought me to where i am etc, even though i viewed it as a waste of my time.
It can be tricky to find the courage to end a relationship too. The not wanting to regret it and the fear of being alone and stuff. It is all pressure! Plus society tells us that the proper way to go through life is to be in marriages and relationships, so its hard to put that "single" status back on yourself when you have already put so much time and effort into a relationship, no matter how bad it seems to be failing.
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